Therapy for Better Sex

Individual psychotherapy and sex therapy for adults. Evidence-based treatments. Nonjudgmental and inclusive provider. Real results with you feeling better.
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Mental Health, Sex Therapy, & Substance Use Treatment

I am a kink-affirming Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist. My passion is helping motivated individuals and couples reignite intimacy and reclaim their sexuality. Regardless of where you are in California, I provide individualized high quality care from my virtual office in San Diego. My practice is inclusive of all sexual orientations, identities, kinks, relationship structures, and behaviors occurring between consenting adults. I specialize in helping kinky, non-monogamous, & LGBTQ+ people living with sexual performance anxieties, desire discrepancies, porn use, substance use, and communication difficulties. I also help straight-identified men understand and appreciate their attraction to trans women. If you want to better understand and appreciate yourself as a sexual being, challenge unhelpful thoughts, improve communication with your partner, be more present during sex, and explore new ways of experiencing pleasure, let’s talk. I’d love to help you reach those goals.
Eric van der Voort, PsyD, CST
Psychologist & Certified Sex Therapist


Do you struggle with one or more of the following?

  • Sex Therapy
  • Kink/Diverse Sexualities
  • Open Relationships/Polyamory
  • Couples Counseling
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Relationship Issues
  • Communication Issues
  • Infidelity
  • Divorce
  • Attachment Issues
  • Sexual Dysfunction
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Men's Issues
  • Women's Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Mindfulness
  • Grief
  • Alcohol Use
  • Substance Use
  • Addiction
  • Perfectionism
  • Medical Professional Stress
  • Burnout
  • Compassion Fatigue


  • Sex Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Psychotherapy
  • Attachment-Based
  • Humanistic Therapy
  • Schema Therapy
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Compassion Focused
  • Eclectic
  • Family/Marital Therapy
  • Therapeutic Journaling

Insurance Accepted

  • Blue Shield Out-Of-Network
  • Private Pay
  • Out-Of-Network


  • Initial Evaluation for Therapy: $300
  • Individual Therapy - 60 mins: $300
  • Couples Therapy - 60 mins: $300


Offering Telehealth Appointments

Eric van der Voort Psychology PC

1050 University Ave Ste E107-77
San Diego, CA 92103-3359

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